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                    takes a decision, which is unfair to a       seen  as  a  sign  of  weakness  or
                    selected  number  of  people,  people        ineptness.  This  is  the  prime  reason
                    often overlook the troubles if most of       people      fear    confessing     their
                    them are insensible to the issue. They       misguided  interpretations.  This  belief
                    believe  in  safety  in  numbers  and        is also the reason why many leaders in
                    cower  away  from  challenging  the          power  defend  their  poor  decisions
                    government  in  fear  of  retribution.       and choices even if they have come to
                    This is not to argue that no coercive        realize  they  were  wrong,  falsely
                    act  by  the  government  is  ever           blaming  others  to  cover  their
                    justified.   Instead,   people    must       incompetence  to  prove  they  are
                    recognize the moral troubles inherent        always  right  and  worthy  of  respect
                    in  coercion.  Of  course,  if  the          and power.
                    convicted  is  accused  of  heinous
                    violence,  brute  force  might  be
                                                                 Swallowing  their  pride  and  standing
                    applicable  in  his/her  case  but
                                                                 up for their mistakes they have made
                    neglecting  to  examine  the  actions  of
                    the  government  just  because  it  is  a    takes  a  lot  of  humility  and  strength.
                    product  of  democratic  system  and         Justifying  their  mistakes  may  lead  to
                                                                 bigger  problems  but  admitting  a
                    assuming everyone is supportive of its
                                                                 mistake  lessens  the  problem.  For  a
                    action is unjustifiable.
                                                                 time  being,  the  person  may  be
                                                                 subjected  to  mockery,  but  learning
                    All people should change their views         from  their  mistakes  makes  them  a
                    if   presented    with    considerable       stronger  and  a  resilient  person  and
                    evidence  and arguments against  their       not  inclined  to  repeat  the  same
                    initial  hunch  instead  of  relying  on     mistake. Reflecting on the situation to
                    ignorant  assumptions  that  they  may       challenge  one’s  cognitive  skills  and
                    be  correct.  For  example,  the  U.S.A.     thinking  is  essential  to  make  every
                    has  vehemently  denied  contributing        right  opinion  an  inspiration  to  think
                    to global warming in years, blaming it       right  in  future.  People  appreciate  an
                    on  newly  emerging  and  developing         honest  person  therefore  admitting
                    economies  for  the  cause.  What  they      mistakes  not  only  builds  a  stronger
                    fail to notice is that people are losing     foundation  for  relationships  but  also
                    respect  for  the  U.S  government  for      allows  one  to  take  responsibility  for
                    not  only  being  dishonest  but  also       their lives.
                    proving  it  to  be  unreliable.  But
                    unfortunately,  oftentimes  people  are
                                                                 We  do  not  believe  what  we  see;  we
                    over reluctant to assert their mistakes.
                                                                 see  what  we  already  believe,  hence
                                                                 challenging  your  perceptions  instead
                    People’s opinions do differ over time.       of     extracting     sensible     facts
                    It is just they do not accept that fact,     complementary       to   our    beliefs,
                    impelled  by  their  ego  and  pride.        opinions, and prejudices is necessary.
                    Admitting  one’s  mistakes  is  often        Our perception is our reality therefore





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