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                        HOW TO DEAL WITH PHISICAL

                                               DISABILITY?


                                                    By Aniket Dubey
                                                                 used to hurt you”. I know that you might
                                                                 have heard this line multiple times in
                                                                 your  life.  But  to  be  true  to  yourself
                                                                 you  have  not  really  put  this  in
                                                                 practice. Even though you have lived
                                                                 with  that  disability  throughout  your
                                                                 life you still have not accepted that it
                                                                 is  a  part  of  you.  You  still  feel
                                                                 whatever good treatment or relief that
                                                                 you  are  getting  from  your  friends,
                                                                 family or even the government is not
                                                                 worth  it.  You  don’t  accept  that
                                                                 reservation  you  got  in  a  train,  you
                                                                 don’t accept the quota that you got in
                                                                 a  prestigious  college  and  you  don’t
                                                                 accept that you deserve to be happy.
                                                                 From your childhood or from the day
                    A physical disability according to me        you got that disability, you are dealing
                    is  when  a  body  part  tells  your  brain   with  a  lot  of  problems  already  that
                    that I will not be able to function well     you  don’t  even  think  about.  That
                    or  at  all.  This  can  be  anything  from   disability  has  taken  so  much  from
                    your  eyes  to  your  toes.  We  are  not    your  life.  It  has  ruined  your  mental
                    talking  about  the  organ  above  your      space  and  has  made  you  so
                    eyes i.e. the brain, because that thing      underconfident  throughout  your  life.
                    is  important  enough  to  get  its  own     It  has  made  you  so  insecure  about
                    article.  And  most  importantly  I  am      every little decision that you take. So
                    not capable enough to talk about that.       whatever  little  bit  of  help  and
                    So, let us talk about the thing I think I    happiness  you  are  getting  is  all  well-
                                                                 deserved  by  you.  So,  if  any
                    am eligible enough to talk about.
                                                                 opportunity  that  is  being  offered  to
                    So,  let  us  start  from  the  basics.  I   you  because  of  your  disability,  just
                    would  like  to  quote  a  dialogue  by      grab  before  it  slips,  because  you
                    Tyrion  Lannister  from  the  book  A        deserve it.
                    Game  of  Thrones,  i.e.  “Never  forget
                    what you are, the rest of the world will not.   Neatly, get it into your head that you
                                                                 are not the only one with a problem.
                    “Wear  it  like  armour  and  it  can  never be
                                                                 You  might  think  that  you  have  the




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