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                       How To Get Rid Of Bad Influence Of


                                                      Others?


                                                    By Gurleen Kaur

                                                                 someone when he gains some of the
                                                                 habits  of  other  people  surrounding
                                                                 him  or  her  and  follows  the  same
                                                                 initial  in  some  activities  and  later  in
                                                                 the  routine  of  life.  Some  positive
                                                                 effects of influence are that, as nature
                                                                 demands  changes,  similarly  human
                                                                 behavior  demands  changes,  thus  by
                                                                 adopting  the  habits  of  others,  the
                                                                 person  may  give  intense  satisfaction

                    In  today's  world,  every  person  is       to his soul and, face a new life. Also,
                    influenced by one or the other around        good  influence  helps  us  weaken  our
                                                                 negative  points  and  strengthen  good
                    him  or  her.  They  don't  know  when
                    they  got  entrapped  into  someone's        qualities  into  us,  making  us  more
                    habits  and  start  moving  upon  the        potential  and  efficient.  On  the  other
                    other's    path.    Like    everything       hand,  if  we  talk  about  the  negative
                    happening in our life have something         aspects then, some of them could be
                    good  as  well  as  bad  to  us.  Similarly,   that  we  lose  our  personality,  we
                    this influence also affects a person in      hesitate in following the activities and
                    both a positive and negative manner.         habits  that  we  have  grown  up  with
                    Positive effects are only possible if we     and  prefer  to  follow  someone  else's
                    gain  those  things  which  improve  us      path.  This  reduces  our  creativity,
                    and  our  activities,  otherwise  being      thinking, and decision making power.
                    influenced  goes  all  in  vain.  But  how   We  don't  make  efforts  to  do
                    can  one  differentiate  between  a          something unique and just get blind in
                    positive  and  negative  influence?  It  is   the  limelight  of  others.  Gaining  bad
                    not easy for anyone to recognize this        habits may also create hurdles in our
                                                                 lives and destroy our personality, for
                    because  positive  influence  for  one
                    may not affect the other person in the       example,  a  person  fully  engaged  in
                                                                 gambling  and  drinking  habits  may
                    same manner.
                                                                 improve  him  by a  good  influence  of
                                                                 non-drinkers  and  successful  people
                                                                 with  their  background  full  of  efforts
                    But actually what is 'being influenced',
                                                                 whereas a person with effort making
                    let's  think  about  it  in  detail.  Being
                                                                 and  jolly  nature  may  destroy  himself
                    influenced  is  a  term  referred  to  as




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